At one point in our lives, we have said or done something that have hurt the people around us. In relationships, conflicts and small fights are unavoidable. These misunderstandings can either make or break your relationship with that important person in your life. Rather than disturb and worry yourself about the problem, go and find a way to remedy it.

However, you should be able to admit when it is your mistake. Apologizing is not that easy. Sometimes, people even think that it is a sign of defeat, or a twitch to their pride and ego. But when you think of it, your pride and ego more important than your friend’s feelings?

Write a personal apology letter as soon as you can. It would be best if you write your letter on a piece of handwritten specialty paper. Do not just type and print it on your computer. In this way, he or she will know that you are sincere. Be careful and respectful with your words. On the first part, apologize immediately. And say exactly what you did wrong. Do not be afraid to admit your mistake and accept responsibility for whatever damage you have caused. Clearly state your feelings and lastly, assure them the same action will never happen again. Below is an example of how to write a personal apology letter.

Sample Letter

May 26, 2010

Dear Mitch,

I am really sorry for being immature these past few weeks. I’m sorry if I refuse to talk and see you. Some of our classmates told me that you were the one who spread the rumor about me cheating on our final exam. I was wrong for believing them rather than listening to you. I know you’ve been trying so hard to reach out to me but then I kept on pushing you away. I was mad. But when I realized that it wasn’t you after all, I felt very guilty. I know it will be hard for you to trust me again. And I understand if it will take a long time for you to forget the things that happened.

I promise to make it all up to you. I don’t want to lose a friend like you because you are one of the best that I have. And it was my biggest mistake to hurt you like that. I hope you can forgive me. Please tell me when you are ready to talk. I’d be more than willing to patch things up. I’ll be waiting for your reply.

Sincerely,
Jen